{"id":579,"date":"2018-04-02T22:03:09","date_gmt":"2018-04-02T22:03:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/?p=579"},"modified":"2018-04-13T22:28:35","modified_gmt":"2018-04-13T22:28:35","slug":"empathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/2018\/04\/02\/empathy\/","title":{"rendered":"Empathy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Empathy is being fully present and connected to another being.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not sympathy, or pity. It doesn&#8217;t imply agreement.\u00a0 Instead, it reaches out to acknowledge another.\u00a0 It facilitates understanding and true communication<!--more-->.<\/p>\n<p>Nor does it even have to agree with another&#8217;s point of view.\u00a0Empathy is simply being genuine, present in the moment, and relating to another living being without judgement or ego.\u00a0 it allows others to truly be seen and heard.<\/p>\n<p>You can grow your empathy!<\/p>\n<p>Notice empathy in your relationships, and notice when it is absent.\u00a0 When we feel judgement, or the need to give advice, we&#8217;ve slipped out of empathy and fallen into relating from ego.\u00a0 When this happens, take a moment to breathe, and instead, allow yourself to feel fully present in the moment.\u00a0 Truly<em> be here<\/em>. Let yourself\u00a0 really<em> listen<\/em>.\u00a0 <em>Be fully present<\/em>.\u00a0 Now you&#8217;ll find that a connection happens, as the other person can relax and allow themselves to be more vulnerable and open.\u00a0 Now you&#8217;re being genuine with one another, and you&#8217;ll feel that effortless connection happen.<\/p>\n<p>So often our conversations with those closest to us, consist of &#8220;defend and attack&#8221; &#8211; in which neither party is actually seen and heard, because we&#8217;re so busy defending our selves or thinking of retorts. It can become a habit, as if we&#8217;re psychically holding onto our shields and swords.\u00a0 Empathy allows us to stop that pattern, and instead, to truly connect.<\/p>\n<p>And connection, without ego, is pure love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Empathy is being fully present and connected to another being.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not sympathy, or pity. It doesn&#8217;t imply agreement.\u00a0 Instead, it reaches out to acknowledge another.\u00a0 It facilitates understanding and true communication<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[134,130,131,128,133,132,129],"class_list":["post-579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-positive-truths","tag-communication","tag-connection","tag-ego","tag-empathy","tag-presence","tag-present","tag-sympathy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=579"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":580,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions\/580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harmonyintuitive.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}